the love of Ar-Rahman...

Don't be sad if ALLAH separates you with something or someone you love..
If we only knew what HIS plans were for us...
Our heart would melt with the warmth of HIS love...
Allahumma'i.....

I surrender to You my Lord....

si cacing dan kotoran kesayangannya

alhamdulillah...
dapet lagi inspiring book yang bagus...
seorang Buddhis Ajahn Brahm...
mengajak kita menyelami diri kita...
mengoreksi sikap dan pandangan kita terhadap kehidupan...

sering kali diri dan pemikiran kita terfokus pada setitik ketidaksempurnaan hidup...
sehingga kita mengabaikan titik2 lainnya yang membuat hidup menuju sempurna...
tidak jarang kita pun terjebak dalam ketakutan-ketakutan dalam menjalani hidup...
selama ini rasanya kita tidak menikmati waktu hidup yang Tuhan berikan...
kita sibuk dengan berfikir, rasa khawatir, rasa takut...
bahkan kita sudah melupakan bagaimana cara mencintai diri sendiri...
astaghfirullah...

berdasarkan teori kaizen yang disampaikan oleh Pak Ary Ginanjar Agustian...
"ambil yang baik, buang yang buruk dan ciptakan sesuatu yang baru yang lebih baik"...

buku ini mengajak kita menertawakan segala kebodohan yang pernah kita lakukan semasa hidup...
meskipun diangkat dari kisah2 seorang biksu tetapi banyak makna dari cerita yang dapat kita petik...

bagaimana kita harus bisa membuka hati terhadap sesuatu yang tidak kita sukai...
untuk pencapaian kata "ikhlas" mungkin ya...
bagaimana kita melakukan sebuah proses pemaafan yang penuh atas segala sesuatu yang mengecewakan...
bagaimana melepaskan rasa takut dari dalam diri...
bagaimana menghadapi kesedihan karena kehilangan...
bagaimana kita membebaskan hati secara positif...
yang paling menarik adalah "bahwa diri kita sangat wajib untuk kita cintai"

jujur... akupun belum dapat sepenuhnya mengaplikasikan dalam kehidupan sehari-hari...
tetapi buku ini sangat membantu membuka pikiran...
bagaimana mengatasi rasa kehilangan yang saat ini tengah kujalani...
sangat membantu mengikhlaskan hati menghadapi segala bentuk perlakuan tidak baik orang lain terhadap diriku saat ini...
dan membuka hatiku untuk dapat menyayangi siapa pun dengan hati yang lapang...
meskipun rasa sakit masih sering mendera hati...
tetapi perlahan pun aku belajar menikmati rasa sakit itu...

apapun yang kamu lakukan...

pintu hatiku akan selalu terbuka untukmu...

megacinta,

Ajahn Brahm

thanks to my besties Hery Noel n bunda Winda for suggest this book... hope we can learn together how to live good in our imperfect life... and learn how love each other just the way we are and true...

eat...pray....love

Eat, Pray, Love 

One Woman’s Search for Everything Across Italy, India and Indonesia

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life. “

“In desperate love, we always invent the characters of our partners, demanding they be what we need of them, and then feeling devastated when they refuse to perform the role we created in the first place.”

“Your treasure – your perfection – is within you already. But to claim it, you must leave the busy commotion of the mind and abandon the desires of the ego and enter into the silence of the heart.”

“In a world of disorder and disaster and fraud, sometimes only beauty can be trusted. The appreciation of pleasure can be an anchor to one’s humanity.”

“There is a reason they call God a presence – because God is right here, right now. In the present is the only place to find Him, and now is the only time.”

“God is an experience of supreme love.”

kado cantik untuk wanita

"kado cantik untuk wanita"

by. Ust.Jajang Aisyul Muzzaki

true love is he who makes our hearts at ease... when we heard his words make us comfortable.. as we knew and beside him, that makes us calm.. when there is anger, he is the one who is able to understand us while other people are ignoring us..




Dear woman.. Don't worry about your soul mate.. Because all of wise Muslims won't be attracted to a woman just because of her beauty, her glance, her smile if that will only damage his faith.. ALLAH has written his name in "Lauhul Mahfudz" for you.. But his personality depending on how do you build your personal in the name of ALLAH and how you stay in HIS way.. InshaAllah he will get in the same way with you.. ☺♥




beautiful woman paints the strength with her problems.. she smiles when she's got depressed.. she laughs when her heart is crying.. she forgives when she's got a pain.. fascinating because she forgives.. she's able to loves unconditionally.. she's getting stronger in prayer n hope.. ♥☺


inspiring book i've ever read... 


Allah hears more than you say.. Allah answers more than you ask and Allah gives you more than you desire..  I do believe in You... :)